I am about to make a revelation that may be a bit surprising, considering the overall romantic look of my blog:
Yeah, uh, I've never really thought a whole lot about making a big deal out of Valentine's Day.
Don't get me wrong, I do a little something sweet for my husband and kids each year, but we don't make a big deal out of it. This morning I began pondering why I have this low-key response to this LOVE-ly day. Perhaps it goes back to my childhood. I don't recall it ever being a special celebration in our home. Although my parents have been married nearly 45 years, I remember only occasional gifts or flowers being given. Maybe my parents were too busy working, maybe they were too practical (money spent on flowers that last a week is a waste?), maybe they didn't buy the commercial hype of the day, or maybe they figured everyday was filled with love. I have never asked. That really doesn't explain why I never really have adopted a new way of thinking about Valentine's Day. I think I would like it to be a bit more special for us, though.
Having said that, I have to make another confession: I am still not completely feeling it today. I know why. My sweetheart is in Texas working! So today, I have been daydreaming of how I would like to treat my husband for the day~ breakfast in bed while watching a soccer match on TV and, later, a surf and turf dinner in a nice restaurant. I am hoping that the thought really does count, and he will feel my love across the miles. I do have goodies for our kids, and I am the lucky one. I get to be with them today!
What about you? Tell us how you share the love on Valentine's Day. Is it a big day in your home? Do you have any traditions or fun ideas that might inspire those of us who are a little lackluster in the art of Cupid?
XOXO!
Mary
Valentine's Day is a favorite of mine. We generally do it up big, but not the say you might expect. Our gifts are tokens (most of the time). I really like to decorate and our meals for the day consists of hearts in every form I can make them. We don't usually go out because we like being home. We still include the kids (and the grandkids) because they'll always be my valentine's too.
ReplyDeleteAnd in my house, it's the thought always counts the most. Hope your sweetheart gets home from his business trip soon.